CHECKING IN for Week 38: Voilà, My Scar!


Checking in on Week 38‘s task of Voilà, My Scar!

This week you are to share a scar and its story with someone, as well as, ask someone about one of their scars and story around it.

You are welcome to do this in the comments…share one of your scar stories.

Besides it being and easy conversation starter and way to connect with someone, what else did you learn or realize from doing this?


  • something in common with someone,
  • were you able to relate,
  • a better understanding of that person,
  • how others dealt with the scar or thing that induced it,
  • lessons learned?

Scars are a part of life….the scars we can see and the ones we can’t. 

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Scars can shape who we are:

  • I have a friend who broke her femur when she was a teenager.  She has a scar from the surgeries to correct this injury.  This “scar” shaped her future; it lead her to become a nurse.
  • I have friends who have inner scars from traumatic childhoods who have used their own healing as a way to help others.
  • I’ve seen scars from illnesses create people who love life to the fullest.

On the spiritual level our scars can be seen as “Sacred Scars.”

This is what I have heard someone call Jesus’s scars on his hands and feet. Scars that he still carries with him even after his resurrection.  If you are like me, you may have wondered why God didn’t return him to “perfect.”

He received those scars in service to God and us. They were in service after he rose to show the apostles it was really him and alive.

They can be in service to us now, as Jesus still having scars means he understands our wounds and scars left from sufferings. And like him, they can be used by God to help others.

Do you have any “sacred scars’ or some that could be?

I hope you never become ashamed of your scars and use them to relate, share and tell your story, be you, and help another.

Cheering You on to a Whole Sacred Scar Heart,






2018 Week 38: Voilà, My Scar!


Week 38’s task of 50 Weeks to a Lighter More Loving You is to “Voilà, My Scar!”

When my daughter was little, she would watch Madeline.  One of the stories was about Madeline receiving a scar from having her appendix removed.  She sang a song about her scar and would show it to whoever wanted to see.  She was very proud of her scar.

Your task this week is twofold:

  1. Share with someone a scar you have and your story behind it.

  2. Ask someone to show you one of their scars and share their story.

Not only is this a great conversation starter to increase your connection with others, but it is easy.   I’d dare say, we all have a scar or two from an accident or a surgery.

Scars are part of life.


Tattoos would be fun to share and ask about, too…but this week…

share your scar story and ask someone about theirs.

Cheering You on to a Whole Scar Story Heart,